((((((Lexicon)))))) I am sorry for the pain you are feeling right now... I am uncertain as how to tell your two friends to not be so judgmental. I wish I had the magic words to say so that they would be true friends who would never say what you can and can't do... I don't understand that... but I do know that in my lifetime, the majority of all my friends have been so different from one another that when I would throw a party I couldn't ask anyone at all, because not one liked the other for whatever ridiculous reason and I mean ridiculous, one friend of ours didn't like another just because of the way he dressed when invited to someone's home. It was driving me crazy.... Guess who has remained our friend through thick and thin....???????? take care and I certainly hope that all works out for you and your friendships