I have never been in this situation before where a nice "normal" stable or as well as I can tell person I think likes me. He is the newest neighbor in my building and I like him too. So you think so what is the problem. Well one of the "floppers" that is what I call the 2 women staying with my neighbor likes him too. Boy does she have it bad for him. I think he thinks of her as just a friend though. I don't know if he knows I don't work because he works a lot of hours. So he could just assume that I am at work when he is at work but I don't know. I think he does know though that I don't work and am on disability I hope though he doesn't know why. It's not like I am ashamed of being mentally ill but it's not really a good relationship starter.

I think this might just be the way for me to get over Rex the problem is I am still clinging to Rex and always having him come around. In fact I think my neighbor was going to ask me out this weekend but I was talking to Rex and asked him to come over on Saturday. I figured since is Zeke's "dad" he should get a Father's Day meal LOL. I am also going to get him a small box of chocolates from Bob Evans..they have one for a dollar. I am getting one for my Dad too just in case his real present doesn't get here on time.

Anyway I want to ask my neighbor to dinner sometime just as friends but don't want to hurt my other neighbor's feelings because like I said she has it bad for him. An example is the 2 floppers and I were outside talking this afternoon just shooting the breeze and she asked me if I had seen his light saber. I said no and she said it is so cool its blue and I dead panned which light saber and she turned all shades of red and said oh no not you too. If all of us are outside she tries to manipulate all his time but the whole time he is talking to her he is looking at me. While I was on the phone with Rex he was hovering and as soon as I was done and hung up he was BAM right there talking to me again.

I don't know how to handle this...only nutcases like me. I don't know how to deal with a "normal" guy with a good stable job, good education and even bonus good looks.

I am not stable now and don't want to drag him into my drama. I can't handle this right now. I have icky guy in the other building that seriously needs to put a shirt on and then nice normal guy.

What do I do?

Jan