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Old Jun 14, 2012, 02:56 AM
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Originally Posted by eskielover View Post
He's the newest guy in your apartment building....you don't really even know him yet.....who knows....he may be a nut case hiding in a good looking guy's disguise......then again, he might just be that nice guy you have been waiting for.....only time will tell on that.

Take it easy.....I always figure if it's meant to be, I won't have to force it, it will happen naturally & things will work out to get to know him even better.

There will always be more girls chasing after a good looking guy, that's just the way that is....just be there & talk & get to know him better before you jump to any conclusions that "this is the guy".

Don't know if inviting him to dinner might come across a bit like chasing.....don't know how current dating procedures are....but back in my dating days, inviting a guy to dinner in your apartment wasn't the best starting place. Someplace out in public where you can really get to know him in a safe environment ......would be my suggestion.
I was thinking that after I got my check next month that maybe we could go to Applebees or something like that just to get to know each other but don't want any hurt feelings among the neighbors. I would make it completely clear that it isn't a date that it is 2 people dining in the same restaurant at the same table. Right now I am trying to figure out the meal for tonight. It seems everyone in our crowd..it seems amazing I have a crowd but anyway almost everyone is having a bad week with the exception of a couple of us so to cheer us up I am grilling tonight. So far I have pork chops, vidalia onions, corn and salad. I am trying to figure out dessert or even if I am going to have dessert. When I am at Walmart I am going to look in the deli and see if they have Oreo fluff. Since it is Oreo's birthday they might. So I just went out not to long ago and stuck notes in their doors saying not to cook supper I am grilling.
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