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Old Jun 14, 2012, 09:39 AM
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The way I figure it, is "all's fair in love and war." If this guy has shown SOME interest in you, then invite him to dinner. Why not? He has NOT invited this other girl out, and she does NOT have any claims on him. I see no problem in you inviting him to dinner. If she gets upset, she'll get over it. Just tell her that he DID show interest in you -- which he DID.

Things are different these days. Women don't just sit back and wait for the guy to make the first move. If we did that, we'd be waiting til dooms day. There are times we HAVE to make the first move -- men EXPECT that these days. So go ahead and ask him. It sure can't hurt -- and I'll bet he accepts too! Have fun -- and best of luck! Hugs, Lee