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Old Jun 14, 2012, 09:48 AM
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I have to agree ~ This is YOUR DAY and your FIANCE'S day! It's NOT to please anyone else. This is a day you want to remember with love & joy! If having your family there is going to put unhappy memories & resentment in your life, the do NOT invite them. Like MissBelle said, some of us have been people pleasers for so long, that it's time to stop!

You don't want to walk down the aisle feeling stressed & angry. You want to feel love and joy. Make this TRULY your day! Forget about them -- if you're having a reception, MAYBE ask them, or have them over after your get back from your honeymoon or something. But don't ruin your special day. God bless & take care. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
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