we have so few men here at pc that you might have to PM them directly so that they know to check this thread.

However Rhap - wouldn't it make sense to discuss your H specifically, rather than keep the questions so general? Every man is different, and even if 100% od the men here at PC give the 'right' answers, it doesn't mean that your H will ever feel the same way. I almost think it is setting your relationship up with a dangerous precendent for you to feel reassured about 'men' if you are trying to regain your trust of your H specifically.

I am on my cell phone so please forgive me if I missed an important point, ok?