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Old Jun 14, 2012, 11:22 AM
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It's very hard to forgive and forget those who hurt us in the past that were supposed to love us. You know them best, if they're still dysfunctional and there's no way you can get past the hurt, it's your wedding and you choose who to invite.

Review your feelings with each family member (as you are doing) but were those feelings given enough time to be forgiven, sorted out when they've been brought up after years of ignoring those feelings? I don't know if your feelings seem to be 'at the moment' engagement can really stress a woman out.

When is the wedding date? I hope you have some time to figure it out before the wedding. I don't want to tell you to ignore them, but I don't want to tell you to just invite everyone

Oh, and congratulations
Thanks for this!
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