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Jun 14, 2012, 12:22 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Whimsygirl ~ I'm sorry this has happened.  Have you been given NO reason at ALL for this disappearance? I think you deserve some explanation. It's only decent! To just pull away and disappear without any kind of reason or explanation is just cowardly.
I would try to contact this person and ASK if i'd done something wrong or what the problem was so that IF I'd done something I could correct it.  But to just leave you wondering isn't fair.
After my husband died, every one of our friends dumped me. No explanation, no nothing. I tried contacting them, but all I ever got was answering machines. I left messages, but no one ever contacted me. I just gave up. I guess they didn't want a single woman in a couples-only group. I didn't know what else to think. We had all gotten along just fine. Who needs them. That was 11 years ago, and I haven't seen or heard from anyone since.
I know it can be painful and lonely -- but try to get out among people. Don't hide away in your home. Yes, it's hard when you're depressed, but once you're out it does feel a little better. I hope you're in therapy. If not, you may want to think about seeing a therapist. It's helped me alot. Best of luck and God bless. Hugs, Lee 
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