Dear ((((((((Fuzzy))))))): I'm so sorry. I know how awful it is when we allow ourselves to be made to feel like that - I have done it sooooo much in my life.
Now we have to put up big giant STOP signs, (saying it over and over if necessary), in order to get those negative messages/mental recordings to cease.
There is usually two or more sides to everything, but all we are required to do, or should do, (I am finally learning), is to own what is legitimately our part, and not take on the 'stuff' of others.
XOXO, Jill PS. Today, your namesake got into some laundry and was wearing some underwear on her head. lol gosh it was hysterical and delightful, too.

(still has me smiling...).
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