I'm at a point in my life where I need to accept, forgive and move on with a marital issue. The problem is, I have never been able to forgive people that hurt me. This is serious and the success of my marriage is on the line.

When important people in my life: family members, friends, boyfriends, etc., hurt me with things they said or did, I would try to look past it and move on but I never really could. Over time, for my self preservation, I would block these people from my life. Even when I forgave them and tried to move on, it was never the same after that.

Once someone becomes untrustworthy or hurts me I'm finished with them. I know it's not normal because no one's perfect and we all make mistakes and should be forgive, but I just don't know how...I need help.

Thanks for reading,
bobbie b65