Snuffy, I'm sorry for what you're enduring with your friend.

Heh. Maybe my H thinks of me in those same terms. Probably so.
But I don't feel it's justified ... with you and your friend, yes, I see how it sadly makes sense, is justified.

But then, love is given and respect/trust are earned/lost/regained .... and so perhaps I don't deserve so much respect/trust, even though I do deserve love. Huh. Well, that stings.

Time to stop coming back to think about this right now!