I have been in love with this girl for about two years now, and just can't seem to forget her. We have only met in person a handful of times, but we are friends on facebook. I have tried many times messaging her over the time I have known her, and each time has yielded bad results. She always seems incredibly uninterested in speaking with me and usually just drops out mid conversation. Yes, I am aware this is probably a "signal". Yes I know she probably isn't in to me, but I just canNOT get over her. Every time I see her face on facebook, my heart melts, and I just feel that that is the girl for me. I thought she hated me for some reason since I guess I was always pushy and persistent with getting her to hang out with me (she never did of course...), but I ended up randomly running into her out of nowhere not too long ago and she gave me a hug and surprisingly still had my number. So I know she doesn't hate me at least... It sucks, because in college I have been VERY reluctant to pursue any other girl I meet as I truly want to be with this girl. These past two years of college have been a struggle for me with constantly fluctuating thoughts of wanting to just FORGET HER and move on, and wanting to just try going back to her. I just saw new photos of her on facebook, and it looks like she is with another guy now. I don't know if I can take this pain again. I went through it once before and it was horrible. Not trying to sound like a territorial jerk (by no means am I saying she should not be with this guy. she has every right to be happy), but wow... it just tears me up inside seeing this guy with the girl I truly have fallen for. I just don't know what to do. I want to be with her so badly. I would even just be happy seeing her, and just being a friend! I just don't know how. We are not in the same social circles really don't have any mutual friends (I don't really count the mutual friends on facebook), and therefore will never see each other. Really my only way of talking to her is through facebook, and that just makes me feel like a creep... I just don't know what to do. I'm back at home here from college and I want to at least see her once this summer...