I've been seeing my current T for about 4-5 months. I go once per week. We are both females. She's black and 40 yr old. I'm white and 25 yr old. She fixes her hair in all different kinds of ways. One time when I first started going, she had these tiny curls all over and they were so bouncy. During therapy, she sit there and twisted them around her finger (maybe she was nervous or bored???)... Anyway, I had this overwhelming desire to want to touch/feel them bouncy curls. I didn't know her enough, and plus she has pretty strict boundaries with me. I keep wanting to ask her to fix her hair like that agian and tell her the reason why lol. I don't know if she might freak out!! I would love to have her sit beside me on the couch and let me play in her hair. Is this just me being curious or is this motherly transference or what???