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According to my T, we ALL have different parts. It's parts of our personality, actually. An example is: I want to go on a vacation. At least part of me does. But another part is terrified of all the preparation involved and would rather never go anywhere. That's a simple example. Or: one part wants to lose weight. The other part can't resist chocolate.
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I don't want to criticize your T... but this seems as looking for problems (or parts) where there are none. You can want few things at the same time and it's natural... I dont think there's "parts" behind it.
I mean, who wouldn't want to not to have to work, but we all want to have good income at the same time. How many people would turn down gift of being able to eat all the want and looking skinny at the same time? I don!t know. WHen I want icecream, it's not some child in me. *I* want icecream... etc.
I don't think everything is about conflict of "parts" of you... putting it this way, it seems one would be constantly at war with themselves...
I am not discounting this theory all together... but to see "I want to eat, but I want to be skinny" and other mundane situations through this perspective... I find it too self-fragmentizing... and I am afraid one could lose who they are in the proccess.
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