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Old Jun 15, 2012, 03:39 PM
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Hi ~ I hope you will look into those site that will help you get your meds that Rohag gave you. You DO need to get on some medication and those sites will show you how to get help in paying for them! Please look into it.

As for the porn sites --- I think you might be over-reacting. That was just one site that you found. Now, I don't know how much he watches porn, but if your sex life is okay, I don't see anything wrong with it. IF your sex life is deficient, then I guess maybe you aren't over-reacting. This cannot take the place of your intimate time! As long as you still have a good sex life, then what is the problem? Men, for some reason, like to watch porn. I guess it's inbred. LOL

Sounds like you have your hands full at home too. You could use a little help. With 3 kids, the house, laundry, cooking, cleaning, yardwork, garbage, and whatever else you can come up with -- you could use a hand. Sure, he works 8 or so hours, but you're working 24/7. He should be giving you a hand. And as for "getting over it" -- he's a JERK. You have a disease -- the disease of depression, and you CANNOT "get over it" -- if you could, you WOULD. Why do millions of people have to go to doctors & therapists for treatment - because they're weak & wimpy?? He's very uneducated about this and I wish HE could feel what we do for just one day! Then maybe he'd understand. It's unfortunate that he won't listen or read about this. I guess he'll always be in the dark about depression. Shame on him.

I wish you the very best. Take care of yourself & God bless. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
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