So, at what age did any of you people find out about your sexual/romantic orientation and gender identity. althogh i have known since middle school, was considering it, that i am gray-asexual, it wasnt until last year that i identify as that. I am 17 now. I also figured in midlle school that i wasnt really a male or female. i am neutrois, happy that i found that lable. transmasculine neutrois to be exact. I do occasionaly bind. i have yet to tell my parents about this. Have any of you told your parents or loved ones about this? how did they react?