(((Purple))),

Just keep paying attention to their interactions and make sure you are there to protect your daughter and she will learn that standing up to these other relatives is her right and she will know you will back her up. She has to learn not to allow them to intimidate her. And she should also learn that their behavior and disrespect for boundaries are unacceptable.

If the 4 year old boy is showing you that he doesn't like YOUR opinion then you need to make sure he knows that that response of him wanting to kill you is not acceptable in YOUR home. Make him sit in a place where he has to take a time out, then go over to him and ask him to appologize and say what he said or did wrong. Apparently whomever parents him is not teaching him to respect others.

Open Eyes