Zoo, I was just about respond to your post about the tapestry, but it's either been deleted or I can't find it on my phone..
Anyway, I'm glad you're making progress with this!!! Do you see a new T now, or is therapy on the back burner still?
I wish I could say I'm doing so well with the same issue.. I haven't seen ex-T in over 4 months, and I'm feeling a lot worse now that I'm finally looking for a new T. So much so that I'm considering trying to find a way to see her again, even though I don't think we're a good fit at all.. that's really bad isn't it!? I can't see any other way through it currently.