I'm like you. Whenever a friend needs me I'm always there for them. Thats just the way I am. I'm no martyr or anything. I just feel that's the way you're supposed to be when someone is having trouble. I have ONE friend that I've known since I was 4 years old who is the only one who has EVER been there for me. Now there HAVE been times when I've called, and she said she couldn't talk right then as she was "busy" -- she didn't ask why I called, etc. That kind of hurt -- but I didn't know what she was busy doing either. So I could have called at a bad time.
I've had other "friends" who couldn't care less. I've been there for them in hard times, but other days they wouldn't give me the time of day. lol I think we've all be thru similar episodes like this. So you have to pick your 'friends' carefully. Best of luck and take care! God bless. Hugs, Lee
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