Hi, I have dealt with very similar situation, (i.e.)--family think my brother is perfect and me--well--every thing you can think of that had some sort of comparrison, or negative jab to it...I have heard it..So myself, I also am trying hard to recover, with all of those negative jabs ingrained in my brain, like they are carved in there so deep...It gets very frustrating when u climd 3 steps up only to fall back a few more..Try real hard to lokk at what you believe yourself to be, and any positive feedback from friends, etc...You don't have a choice in who your family is...but atleast we can choose our friends, etc...and they are usually the ones who see the real us.......geez I hope this helps....