Ben,
In your first reply, "everything", is so true in my case, except, hubby loves cooking, so heck, I let him, what women wouldn't, eh?
Only thing,though, he's getting to do another thing he "likes" doing, as far as home stuff, he likes the big food shopping, so I'm lucky there.
Other than that, I do everything, even a caregiver/taxi for my elderly,sickly mom, her cat and my 2 dogs.
Seems I never get the time to do the last thing Rhap had on her list, "take care of ME".
The only taking care of myself is, seeing my pdoc every 6-8 weeks,gives me the scripts to keep my meds. going.
Sad, to think, I should put that as "taking care of me".
I need to make time to go back to my hobbies,someday it shall happen.