Nope, no magic wand to give. Sorry for your pain, I can relate. I do think that taking that many pain meds might not be the healthiest thing, however. I also have multiple disc problems(back & neck) and suffer periodic migraines. I honestly think that people do get tired of hearing it although my family is supportive. Sometimes I just don't even bother complaining bc it serves no purpose. I find it's helpful to vent to other people who suffer from pain issues.