Hi Miguel'sMom, here if you need to talk. I have a 10 yr old too. I have had to consider he may have to live with my mom for awhile if my living situation falls apart. And she lives in another state, I would hardly see him. It terrifies me. It must be really hard what you guys are going through. Lurk if you need to, I do that for months sometimes. And remember we're here too if you need to talk. Hugs.