(((yellowted)))

I can hear your pain, anger, as well as a little bit of guilt in this post.

Open Eyes gave such a level-headed response to you. Thinking about other possibilities that may be occurring within your family, instead of just reacting emotionally. So wise!!

I can relate to your pain ~ I just can't seem to get out of my emotional perspective! It does hurt to not have your experiences and emotions accepted by family.

In my personal experience, my distress has increased as I've become an adult and have had children of my own. I can understand that parents make poor decisions sometimes, and that we aren't always right. But I can't understand why or how some families are unable or unwilling to apologize to their children. Until my family is willing to accept what I say & respond with, "I'm very sorry that you had such painful experiences in your childhood" without going on the defense, I just can't have anything to do with them. My pain level is above the brim.

It sounds to me as though that's what you are experiencing with your mum and sis. Gentle hugs to you ~ I hope that you are able to come to terms with whatever decision/s that you make about contacting your family. It is a tough experience.

Very best wishes to you!