Perna,

Ohhh I see what you are getting at there. I didn't even consider that - you are very right about the overcompensating, using intellect so I don't have to feel stuff. I didn't think I did that anymore but now that you bring it up and I think about it, you are right on the money. My last few therapists brought that up too.. I must be still doing it but not noticing it. Hmmmm Interesting.

Thanks for your reply! I will bring it up tomorrow at the session.