That's a good question, I definitely think it would be difficult because it would be hard to say "Hey honey you're getting huge, go get help" without hurting them. If I was the wife making the meals I personally would have cut all fats out and made him healthier meals and encouraged him to go on walks with me. But then again if he was to the point where he's unable to even get to the bathroom, I would definitely have to give him the reality......I'd say "get help, or you will die".

I was shocked when she said they had been married for years and never once had sex.....what?!?.......his body was so large that his sexual (you know) was hidden under access amounts of fat. I feel awful for them, I wonder how and why she stays with him, it must have something to do with her own insecurities.

I know for a fact there are over weight men and women who are hot. It's not neccesarily there bodies that make them hot but the way they represent themselves can be a turn on alone.