Yes!!! try not to worry about it, you are strong to be able to know you are not ready for a relationship. I have not been in a relationship....evert. I have had 3 dates in my life. Never even kissed a guy. Im 19 years old. I try not to let it bother me(though it does) because I KNOW i am not ready yet. My mental state is to unstable. If i cant love myself, how can i love someone else? My anxiety and depression are just to much in control right now, i cant think about others. Right now we need to think about ourselves, and heal ourselves. You will find the right person one day when you are ready