I agree you should be able to have the IUD if you understand the risks (which you do) and it is what you want done. I absolutely agree that the concept of "talk therapy" for pms is absolutely ludicrous! I can't believe anyone could say that with a straight face.

Do you know a brand name for the IUD that you want? If so, you might be able to look at a manufacturer's website, and there could be a "find practitioners in your area" type link. Drug companies being in bed with medical offices ought to benefit someone.