Oh yeah, the thing I forgot to mention is that we live a one-hour drive away from the nearest city (in which she works, and I would work, and in which the doctors are) . . . and because I'm visually impaired, she would be driving me everywhere. So lying about it probably ain't going to work.

And this would be just about as much her helping me (with an easy place to live) as me helping her. And it's going to be really **** for me no matter what, but eh.