Sorry leed that i haven't posted a reply. I did read what u said, i just got side tracked. I've been reading the other post. And been looking into those thanks i thought our sex life was ok, its a little hard to be intimate cus of our different schedules. So i talked to him and he said that i wasn't taking care of business. But i think its pry an accuse cus he got caught. It pry wouldn't be such a chore if he wouldn't be so inconsiderate. If he would try to have a little more understanding about how i feel, it would pry be easier.
It would help if i had more hands around here, and i should pry put my foot down on the kids to help out too, there 13,10,7.there old enough to help. I just get frustrated either trying to get them to do something or having to go back and do what they tried to do. So most of the times its easier on me to just do it. I've had talks with him about helping out, and his moms says she didn't raise him like that and he needs to help out too, but he don't listen. So what am i supposed to do.
Im with ya on the shame on him part. I wish he would open up and understand, maybe one day, praying for him. I did give his mom some pamphlet about what im going through, she seemed open to it. I think she understands a little, so that a plus.

Thanks for your incite i really appreciate it. I was lost.