the company is in a province where families never accompany employees........the employees generally live "in a condo-type commune chinese style house".......the last time he was there, there was no internet service where they lived and the computers are "fixed" to prevent e.mail accounts. he actually would e.mail me from airports...oh yes, no phones in the company houses.....it was a long and cold winter that year. it takes a very long time for a hand written letter to get to oklahoma from china. and vice versa.

p.s. this is the company that took bankruptcy when hundreds of thousands of women sued them over breast implants.........and they miraculously regained their financial stability and now they send their employees to places like the above.......no wonder i'm so furious about this......he is actually talking about leaving them.........but that is a whole different color of cat.....$$$$$$$$

i'm sure that i'll adjust.......i just need some help on it. this could take place as soon as friday.