I know....I can really relate....at the moment, I'm going through so much with my physical health at the moment, I really don't feel like I can cope with being in a relationship at all because of it all....everywhere I go, people assume I want that and feel they have to give me "advice" on meeting someone, when it's the last thing I want at the moment and I obviously I don't want to explain why....I'm starting to avoid people altogether because of it.