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Jun 19, 2012, 11:20 AM
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Member Since: May 2010
Location: Some where between my inner mind and the solar system.
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Your old T sounds like a great place to start. I bet he'll have some great resources to connect with and he knows the real deal and can connect you to the right people so you don't have to waste time doing that. Getting that bag ready is a great idea too. It might feel like a step back but, it is taking care of you and your son and that comes first.
If I insinuated in any way you were playing games I never meant that, you are too busy trying to survive to have time for games. You can use a safe outlet to let out steam, you can do here on PC--but you just need to be clear that it is venting so we know it's a safety valve, and nothing to worry about. With everything you are worrying about you need someplace safe to vent, thats all I meant. I had a close friend when I went though all my crap with I could fantasize with her and she knew it was just venting. it felt great then and we had some great laughs then I could get back to being a mom. Somehow despite him, I was able to to the PTA, but then he never went after my daughter, just me. Best of luck. Hope your old T gives you lots of choices. 
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…Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …...
Desiderata Max Ehrmann
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