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Sweetie, this man has problems that you are NOT going to be able to solve. Like Lido said, he has you tied in knots, not knowing what is ok and what isn't. You are NOT a deviant, and certainly not a monster. Nothing you have done is "abnormal" or of an abusive nature. He is one sick cookie.
It would be in your best interests to get out of this relationship, and find someone who is 'normal' and doesn't have all these problems to deal with. This poor guy needs help, and theres nothing YOU can do to help him. If he's not in therapy, he certainly needs to be! The longer you stay in this relationship, the worse it's going to get.
I wish you the very best. Please keep us posted, and God bless. Hugs, Lee
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