My T rarely discloses anything of a personal nature. I know nothing about what's going on in his life. I know only a little about his circumstances. I know he's married and he has kids, but I don't even know how many or how old they are. If he's had a bad day or gone through something difficult, he's never shown it - he's very steady and constant. I've only been seeing him for 6 months or so, so it's possible that nothing big has gone on for him in that time.