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Originally Posted by sweathers81
Is it stuff laying around the house. Maybe you can pack it away in a special box, and put it in a closet for now. Or maybe rearranging things so they don't remind u of them. Its really hard to lose a special person. But for u to be able to move on with your life, u have to try to be positive about yours. I hope u can find the peace u need. Best wishes
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Thanks so much for your comments, and your kindness. Everything you said is right on target. Although I am fighting the urge (at the moment)....and it's a strong one, to just pack up all the gifts, and the cards, etc. and send them back to her, for the time being I am going to do EXACTLY what you are saying, and just box them up. (In face that's on the agenda for this afternoon.) Although I can't really avoid the reality that so many things make me think of her, and how heartless she's being....I can at least start with removing the "physical" reminders.
