I know that my homework will need to be talked over so I will take my journals out right away. She leads the discussion most from there now on. I used to make a list and realized that with my list I was controlling the session and so T asked me to stop having an agenda and to just come in. When I had an agenda I would steer the convo and ignore the harder things. I don't grow and heal when the tougher issues aren't looked at, so now I just bring homework in. If something ways heavy on my heart I do make sure it's in my journal to talk about.