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Originally Posted by farmergirl
I'm confused. You made a commitment to your sister to go on a bender? (I ask because you said you don't want to choose between family and T, so I'm assuming T would be against this and therefore your sister is encouraging it?)
I'm not so sure you are unwilling to help yourself or you wouldn't be asking these questions in the first place, right? T needs to know this is going on in order to help you past this. Can you find something healthier to do that won't leave you with the regrets that you seem to already be feeling?
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Yes I told my sister I would party with her and made a financial commitment. My T only approves of drugs/alcohol if it's controlable which for me its all or nothing, in this case all.
I can't say no to my sister, and I don't necessarily even think I want to. Your probably right that there will be regret, I most likely know this already as you pointed it out. I just don't see the point in seeing T if I already made my decision. To go complain about a choice I consciously made afterwords just seems like a waste. Thus eliminate T.