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Originally Posted by stopdog
Why did you choose this rather than to take care of yourself? Is being resentful and unhappy really better than the rollercoaster? Is the rollercoaster with the therapist or with your spouse?
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its partner....she always wants to "understand", " i dont get it", she wants me to explain my behaviors and thought of which i dont get. Im not the same person, according to her. Its not T he has been wonderful, but its save us or me....and its easier to save us...ie her