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Originally Posted by learning1
Was your last session the first time you brought up the possibility of changing therapists to her? You seem to imply that maybe she was hurt or disappointed since you said maybe she's having trouble getting clients. Maybe she didn't think it was a good idea for you to switch. idk. My t was trying to get me to leave and at the last session he said, you've opened up a lot in here so celebrate that. Maybe they're more likely to be warm if they want you to leave so you'll feel confident and not come back. If they're ambiguously cold, maybe you'll feel things are unresolved and come back. You sound sure of yourself with moving on though. If that's how you feel, I'd not think about her too much.
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Yes, I'm feeling better
In the past year she had suggested that it may be time for a change,
maybe it also had to do with her recognizing that my needs were changing. I had attempted suicide last year. And honestly, I still don't feel anything about it (suicide). But yes, I'm set on it all and not going back. For now I'm not seeing anybody. Soon I'll probably have to though, and I don't like that fact.
I'm still conflicted about seeing a male therapist, I just don't feel like I've seen any that I can relate too or feel comfortable with. It's not as if I have unresolved problems with men. I get along with my father okay, which is a big change compared to years ago, when I used to hate him.