I'm one of those who have a hard time forgiving people. I think my problem is the unresolved anger.
It took my mom dying to forgive her for not believing me when her husband molested me...I don't think I've truly forgiven anyone else in my life besides her. I guess that tells you how well I deal with anger.
I can talk, talk, talk about my anger, deal with it right away, but it never seems to get resolved.
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