Disfunctional families (disfunctional people) don't see their disfuction, if they did then they would not be disfunctional.

You can see it, it has affected you and the way you have judged others as well as yourself. How we value ourselves is effected by this as well. So when we wake up and look back at those we live with every day in a small group we call family, it is hard to see the disfunction and know that these people are too disfuctional to ever validate us. And yes, it is sad and not healthy to be around them because they will not understand it if we don't play our own old role in their disfunction.

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