Well ofcourse you would have bad feelings about your daughters visiting your disfunctional family. And you are not there?

Although Shezbut, you may be surprised that when they come home they may be the ones that validate you by saying something like, wow, your parents are strange mom.

So ease up, your daughters didn't grow up around them right? So they may see them realistically, not like you who was a part of that.

So take some deep breaths and I think that your daughters have more sense than you think

((hugs))
Open Eyes