Refer back to what I wrote originally about why there is no help available for men like there is for female victim/survivors.
In my last posting I'm making a statement that I am required to go downtown just like everybody else, not allowed to feel anything like anxiety or unwillingness to go, let alone be able to even tell my story as to WHY I despise downtown.
I have to becasuse of my gender as a man; that's the first WHY.
Until I was referred to my present therapist [who is a female] I considered ANY therapist who would bill for BC/BS.

Question for you Tomi : What difference does gender make for a therapist anyway?
Is it the same as the difference for gender of the victim??

~this IS the root of the problem~

Incidentially, just so you don't begin to think I despise the whole entire nation, I was referred to my present therapist by a wonderful lady who writes to this site. And she has no knowledge of Tennessee, let alone me or anything else execpt the basis of the problem. And may God bless her !!.
Finally, I do not think you are understanding what I have written; NO there are NO support groups I can attend. *NONE* and in my original posting I am asking the big question WHY there are no support services, like groups, therapists, let alone dedicated funding like there is available for women ???.
Yes, I am alone. Just like 1 in 50 other men who were sexualized by females in position of authority.
Thanx for the chat, but I don't feel you are willing to recieve the message here. I understand too well about my mothers frustrations and generations of abuse, unsupportive and weak fathers, and free spirited unliscensed therapist and their motives back when "The Joy Of Sex" was their text book.
I also know God and I know why things happen when satin becomes involved.
But what I don't know is WHY I have to be alone??? WHY is this a female crime instead of genderless like it should be???
Tom S.