Hamster, just one question, and it's got nothing to do with your size. What would you accomplish by a very short sexual relationship with D? You said he's only going to be here a short time. And all the while you'd be worried about his being turned off over your weight. I'm not trying to talk you out of this, just to get you to look at the possible consequences of your wishes. Do you want to risk a long term friendship over some short term sex?

~Buggs