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Old Jun 21, 2012, 12:40 AM
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I have been thru so many rejections to get abuse help that it's not even funny.

I was in a support group for s. abuse when I was in my 20's and got kicked out just because my memories were "dim".

I did not even touch a s. abuse group for years after that. I was so gd discouraged. And even doubted what happened to me again.

I know it hurts.

I got a hold of the book Courgage to Heal by Laura Davis and Ellen Bass and they talked about not remembering and still knowing or having a feeling we were abused.

That helped me get back to it. And I am better. I doubted my abuse again until I got hold of that book.

Billi
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