Yes, I think my sister will be helping out much more in the coming month. She knows how much stress I am under and does support me & is a good sounding board. I just found out yesterday that I will probably be getting back surgery and that will involve a 2 day hospital stay. I posted about it in the Chronic pain forum. My dad can either stay over their house or she can come here to help him out. She has been helping out a lot more since my back started bothering me and she should....it's her father too. My nehpew is away at college but my brother in law can help too if need be.

Believe me I am not shy about asking for help. Especially now with me being half incapacitated.