My T told me when his brother in law became very ill over memorial day weekend. He was supposed to call me but he couldn't because he was watching his sisters kids because he was taken to the hospital. He also told me what procedure he was having done as asked me what I knew about it, because I'm a EMT. I just think its my T being human. I am happy he shared what was going on. Otherwise my mind would have ran wild with why he didn't call me. It's all up to you how comfortable you are with your T sharing personal things. If your not okay with it be sure to mention it. In the very beginning of my therapy I didn't want to know ANY thing about his life. And every single time he told me something I was triggered, he was aware of it and pushed me. I needed it.