Hi Heather,
You are the best! Your advice is so warm and thoughtful. Thank you! What you suggested is what I believe I will do I am just so nervous. I feel so nuts when I get this way. I have such anticipatory anxiety right now that I am having a hard time sleeping. I think I will try and talk to hubby I just don't want him to a) think I am wacky or b) think I am trying to rain on his parade. Again Heather thank you so much for your insightful advice you are too kind as is everyone here!
Jenn

Jennifer