Why is this a matter of right and wrong? I am not telling you that you are wrong. It's like you are shoehorning what is a very complex and multifaceted issue into a teeny tiny box. Good way to avoid the real issues, though, if that is your intent.

But however you feel gives you something to work on in T. It will majorly F up your life to see things as either you have to be perfect, or you are nothing. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone is wrong at times and there are few things in which it is certain that this is Right and the Other is Wrong.